I saw a newsletter in the "Danyang Daily" on December 9th: "Yunyang School launched a special education campaign on" anti-bullying on campus "." It was a surprise: such an event was really good. I can't help but think of a recently released film "Youth of a Youth", which embodies campus bullying to the fullest.
In fact, it is not difficult to find out that it is caused by psychological problems of children. I do n’t want to evaluate the quality of the film, I just want to say: Many of the children with mental defects are currently caused by family factors. In the movie, Wei Lai's disappointment was caused by her father's rereading because of her disappointment in the college entrance examination, and she did not talk to her for a year. I have been a teacher for so many years and have witnessed the sadness of many children: families divorced, abandoned by their parents, left behind ... These children are really victims of their parents' delay.
From the age of 13 to 18, this is the period of the most intense physical and psychological development during adolescence, the most passionate, romantic, most creative, least conservative, and most active period. This is a transitional period for children from childishness to maturity and dependence to independence. It is also a "dream season" full of fantasy and curiosity about life, society and the future. Some scholars describe this period as a "turbulent, contradictory, turbulent, stormy period." Middle school students in this period are in a special period of personal development. With the joy of growth, the pain of life, the pressure of learning, and the attraction of emotions, all kinds of feelings are intertwined. The young heart becomes very sensitive and impulsive. There is joy in bloom, but also sadness in withering. They long for friendship, understanding, and freedom. Sometimes too many longings are prone to a series of psychological problems. This requires parents to accompany more: parents are their closest people, and the parent's company is irreplaceable. The second is the teacher, because this time is their prime time for studying, and they spend most of their time in school, and the teacher also plays an irreplaceable role. Then there is the classmate. The relationship between the students is the time that affects their psychology The most critical factor ... these many factors determine whether they can form a good character. In reality, parents are either too lazy to manage or just study, and ignore their psychological changes and so on. As a result, children lack good guidance during the character formation stage, and when they are adolescents with high academic pressure, various problems appear on campus. School bullying is the most typical one.
Therefore, to control and handle school bullying, we must prevent and intervene from the “small”: if minor deviations between students can be criticized and corrected in time, more serious violent injuries may not occur. In particular, as parents, we must not just care about our children's performance, but ignore the attention to their mental health, and create a warm family atmosphere for our children.
Let us parents, teachers, and society work together to "purify" our environment, so that each child can have a healthy youthful sunshine and grow up in love!