Recently, 11-year-old He Yide completed the self-study college of Nanjing University, setting the record for the youngest graduate in the history of the test. That year, the "naked runner" who only wore a pair of shorts and ran in the snow and ice, once again entered the public's field of vision. One sparked discussion about the success of his father's "eagle education."
Under the leadership of his father "Eagle Dad", He Yide went naked in the snow at the age of 3, sailed in the open sea at the age of 4, sailed at the age of 5, wrote a letter to more than 50 heads of state, published an autobiography at the age of 7, and walked through Lop Nur at the age of 8. A number of robot world champions ... can be described as "storm" growth.
The reason why "Eagle Dad" made his son perform such a severe physical challenge is because He Yide is a premature baby, with a variety of complications, and is weaker than ordinary people. In order to make up for this congenital deficiency, he specially formulated He Yide A special physical training program. At the same time, "Eagle Dad" believes that traditional education lacks purpose and provides family education to He Yide. The young self-study junior college is also the goal of He Yide to become an entrepreneur. It seems that teaching is based on aptitude and children's good. Quick success.
In fact, it is not uncommon to get a prestigious university in your teens, and it is not uncommon to complete your studies quickly and early. However, in the latest interview, He Yide said, "Many times in the university, there are many topics, especially courses like probability theory and statistics, many of which I think are right, but they are wrong and difficult to understand. Those topics are very Difficulty. "Obviously, He Yide still has difficulties in studying. We can't help but ask, what is the benefit of accepting all these incomprehensible courses in a university at such a young age? The 18 exams are evenly divided into 70.3 points. Behind this score, how much knowledge, ability, and pressure are they bearing? Admittedly, we can see He Yide's excellence, but at the same time we can also see He Yide ’s desire for his son to be an outstanding person. Behind this desire for quick success and profit, how many children have lost that age of innocence and happiness, we unknown.
The parents who are eager to make quick successes are not only "Eagle Dad", but they are more ordinary than "Eagle Dad". Cultural tuition classes are full, and tuition classes such as maths, speed reading, shorthand, and short calculation are also full. I hope that the child will become a dragon and that the woman will become a phoenix. This is the educational expectation of many parents stemming from love and responsibility. There is nothing wrong with it, but this logical thing that should follow the laws of children's physical and mental growth and the development of education is inexplicably endowed with contention. The urgency and anxiety of running away. I do n’t know since when the thinking of “ca n’t let the child lose at the starting line” has been clamoring, and the child ’s intellectual training has continued to move forward. At the age of 3, the 6-year-old should learn something. At the age of 6, the 12-year-old knowledge has been learned. The sooner the better, the faster the development, the better, and completing the study too early is even labeled with "smart preeminence" and "excellent", but this is actually an extremely wrong understanding.
In particular, parents who deny school education and try to educate their children through home education are more likely to fall into the misunderstanding of quick successes. They always regard their children as "geniuses". In order to prove their children's talents and success in family education, Forcing children to learn knowledge and abilities beyond their age tolerance range, ignoring their pressure completely.
There is nothing wrong with the education and extra tutoring according to their aptitude, but parents must pay attention to their moderation of the child's love and expectations, and must not add the pressure of quick success to the child's heavy academic foundation, so that the child can learn appropriately at the appropriate age. Knowledge and enjoy the joy it deserves.